I joked that I ate a big burrito for lunch and continued teaching.

except for one thing society’s “12 week” rule.

It’s a rule rooted in the previously “taboo” nature ofmiscarriageand loss.

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So, this unofficial rule of waiting until thesecond trimesterto share baby news was born.

But the reality is there’s no real reason tohide a pregnancythat you’re otherwise ready to share.

That’s why I decided toannounce my last two pregnanciesbefore the 12-week mark.

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And in some ways, the experience surprised me.

“Have you even been to the doctor yet?”

I got the support I needed earlier

The first trimester is hell.

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You areexhaustedlike never before.

Everything makes you gag or puke.

You bloat,your breasts hurtand you may worry about a possible miscarriage.

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When’s a better time to rally your people around you?

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