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“I want it!”
Here’s how to head off greediness in toddlers and deal with their often constant requests for things.
They’re thinking: “I want it, and I should have it now!”
The result: They beg or grab.
The good news is that toddlers are too young to be materialistic.
Your child may whine and cry, but know that you’re doing what’s best for her.
Stay consistent
Setting limits(and sticking to them) is key for kids this age.
Toddlers handle transitions better if they know whats coming next.
Prior to entering, tell your tot how long youre going to stay and what you’re there for.
Once inside, stick to your guns and keep prepping for the departure.
(“We can look at one more thing before we leave.")
Explain to your toddler that this is a “just looking” visit youre not buying anything.
“Trevor likes trucks, doesnt he?")
whenever youre shopping for toys.
Say, “We talked about this, and you didn’t listen to me.
Now we need to go home.”
Then stick to your word and go.
So if she sees something expensive that she absolutely must have, don’t dismiss her plea right off.
(Chances are good she’ll forget about it by then.)
Do some (but not all) shopping solo
Avoidance can be your ally.
When it’s an option, run some errands without your tot in tow.
But it’s not possible, or even a good idea, to always avoid the issue.