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Recoiling, you look around and wonder whether other parents are getting the same kind of talk.
They definitely are (even if you don’t see it).
So how do you teach your tot to hold her tongue?
Is my toddler’s disrespectful behavior normal?
Allow yourself that sigh of relief: There’s nothing wrong with your toddler or your parenting.
And it all starts right at home.
Toddlers are also known for rudely interrupting people when they’re talking or doing something else.
This is also completely normal.
They’re not old enough to understand how to respect others.
The best way to do that?
And if you catch yourself saying something less-than-savory to someone else (it happens!
), check that your toddler hears you apologize sincerely.
Make a big deal when your toddler is kind.Don’t let your child’s thoughtful behavior go unnoticed.
Respond without insult.It’s okay to tell your toddler when she’s said something hurtful, but be constructive.
Plus, seeing you fly off the handle can be scary for your tot.
Avoid threats.Saying “Stop it or else!”
usually doesn’t work and sets the stage for a power struggle.
Redirect as needed.Rather than make threats, take a stab at move on.
Anticipate trouble spots.Toddlers are more prone to lashing out when they’re hungry or tired.
Keep meals and wholesome snacks consistent and verify she’sgetting enough sleepat nap- and bedtime.
Should there be consequences for a rude, disrespectful toddler?
Consequences can send the message to your toddler that rude or disrespectful behavior isn’t acceptable.
So how can you useconsequencesto send the message that mean or naughty language won’t pay off?
If she says she hates you at the playground, tell her it’s time to go home.
Or do a short time-out.
A brief break from the action gives your child a chance to regroup.
Savetime-outsfor toddlers 2 and over, though.
But she’ll eventually make the connection if you hold steady with your discipline strategy.
Never use physical punishment.Never hit, shake orspank your childas a form of punishment.
Avoid threatening, shaming and insulting her too.
These actions won’t help, and they can make behavior problems worse.
July 7, 2022
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