How can I deal with these nosy questions in a diplomatic way?"

Get your story straight.

Wherever you lie in the spectrum, though, verify your partner is right by your side.

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A little grace is in order here, so add a pleasant “But you never know.”

Or dare to be silly, with an answer like “We’re waiting to hit the lottery.”

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Find a willing ear.

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and nagging fears (what if I can’t get pregnant?).

Keep your eye on the prize.

In the end, if fielding baby questions from nosy relatives feels overwhelming, a little perspective may help.

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Plus, how long can a conversation about baby making last?

They ask, you answer, and the discussion is done (until the next time).

Here’s to loving relatives nosy or not!

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