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Youre one smart cookie to think about this already.

Kids are going to test your boundaries.

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This will help her gain a sense of responsibility and not expect everything to be done for her.

Otherwise, shell think she can continue to manipulate you and others in her world.

If shes refusing to get in her car seat after dance class, refrain from dangling an ice-cream-cone carrot.

how to avoid spoiling your toddler, mother and toddler son doing dishes and cleaning

Otherwise, youll end up with a spoiled toddler who will expect a treat after every class.

So choose your battles.

When a request is reasonable and made when your toddlers on her best behavior, go ahead andreward her.

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